What is your stance? Are you defending or offending,? You may be prone to use Stonewall or Grey rock.
But which one will it be? And are we self reflective enough to see this clearly? 🗿🪨
What is your stance? Are you defending or offending,? You may be prone to use Stonewall or Grey rock.
But which one will it be? And are we self reflective enough to see this clearly? 🗿🪨
Identity-level internal chaos and avoidant attachment is driving you to sabotage and lose control. But, rest assured this was no failure. You could think of it as practice.
Overwhelmed by emotions really means that you’re not capable of real intimacy only the illusion of it.
A lot of people stay in this for years.
You snapped out in months, and honestly, faster mentally than emotionally.
That’s self-protection.
Your intuition is strong.
No more jumping through hoops, no more emotional gymnastics. Your fire won’t scare them, It’ll attract them, once the cycle is complete.