Never enter a dynamic that hasn’t earned its footing.
Sometimes, no reply is the cleanest boundary.
Tag: boundaries
Low Noise < High Accuracy
High-level pattern recognition in this sequence:
Scan —> Analysis —> Recalibrate —> Conclusive Decision —> Action.
Low tolerance for environments full of noise, high accuracy environments preferred .
Center of Gravity
Moving from an external locus of control, to an internal locus of control, that is where you’ll find your center.
Mindless Merger
In symbiosis the mother and child are not psychologically differentiated. They act as a single unit. In early infancy, this is developmentally appropriate.
Problems only emerge if the child fails to eventually see themselves as separate from mother.
This is the fork in the road that leads to pathology, where the individual will unconsciously continue to seek the recreation of this dynamic to enable separateness where it had failed before.
Boundaries Intact
Self-coherence does not chase recognition.
It breeds boundaries that are assertive, without being hostile.
Differentiating between autonomy and aggression.
It holds. Quietly.
the Purgatory of a Broken Heart 