On memory, fantasy, and the body’s refusal to stay in time.
Tag: intellectualization
Boundaries Intact
Self-coherence does not chase recognition.
It breeds boundaries that are assertive, without being hostile.
Differentiating between autonomy and aggression.
It holds. Quietly.
No Love
Call me cynical if you must. We all have our own philosophy on life and love. Everyone’s experience is uniquely subjective. And I have an earned level of discernment. Judge me if you must.
No one could ever break my heart, because I never expected love.
FEAR, the Life Killer 🔪
Why should I be scared to step out at night? I’m grown. I can handle myself. I got the shank and the taser. ☠️
Why should I stay trapped between these four walls, engulfing me like a prison?
I want to live and be free.
Intellectualize It
Thinking preserved self continuity when feeling did not protect against emotional engulfment, relational collapse, identity diffusion or being pulled into someone else’s gravity.
Just make sure you sequence the process properly for maximum effect.
And that is sufficient for now.
the Purgatory of a Broken Heart 