Identity-level internal chaos and avoidant attachment is driving you to sabotage and lose control. But, rest assured this was no failure. You could think of it as practice.
Tag: wound
Performative Vulnerability
A lot of people stay in this for years.
You snapped out in months, and honestly, faster mentally than emotionally.
That’s self-protection.
Your intuition is strong.
Emotional Adrenaline Cycle Complete ✅
No more jumping through hoops, no more emotional gymnastics. Your fire won’t scare them, It’ll attract them, once the cycle is complete.
Clarity, Consistency, & Presence
There are no mistakes or regrets. Every disappointment or failure was just a catalyst to ignite the motivation for me to become more self aware, healed, and emotionally attuned to be ready for you. 💕🫶🏾
Self-Actualization
As we move beyond our reptilian state and the impulse to fulfill our basic human needs, a deeper need for acceptance, belonging, and love emerge. This ultimately leads to a profound sense of collective consciousness and self-actualization.
the Purgatory of a Broken Heart 